Help me meet girls!!
Ok guys I promised I would give you some good tips for meeting single women! I wanted to get you a lot of good stuff so this is not just things I though of, I also interviewed a girl who is single and out on the dating scene to get you some tips. Gals-feel free to add your own tips in the comments.1. Let's say you see a girl you'd like to meet in a bar, but you're not sure what to say. Tip number 1 is SAY ANYTHING. Yes, its quite possible she won't like you, and there is even a chance you'll make a fool of yourself. But there's also a chance you'll strike up a conversation and meet a great girl. That definitely won't happen if you never try.
2. Little things like opening the car door for her can go a long way. I think sometimes guys think that things like that will offend some of us modern feminists. You can be a gentleman without being overly chivalrous. Offering her your umbrella=good. Offering to kick the crap out of the guy checking her out from across the bar=bad.
3. Be interested in HER. So lets say you've gotten up the guts to go talk to her. Don't be looking around at other girls, or talking to everyone else in the bar. You wanted to talk to her so bad, so talk to just her. If you do this, and she doesn't seem interested then move on, but make sure you've tried this first.
4. SMILE! You'll seem happier, friendlier, and most people look more attractive when they smile.
5. Have a real conversation. It's not a job interview. Just have a nice friendly conversation, not stream of vital statistics questions. Let those things come up naturally and you'll feel like you're "clicking" a lot more.
How do you tell if she's even interested?
-She wants to continue the conversation.
-She's smiling, laughing, and maybe even hair flipping (yes I will admit to this one).
-She's making hints for you to take her number or ask her out.
-If you still aren't sure, you'll just have to ask her if she'd like to go out sometime.
And yes some girls may still expect you as the guy to be the one to ask them out first. Plus even if its not a gender role thing, she may just be nervous about it. But now that you have all these great tips, you aren't going to be nearly as nervous, are you?
posted by Mia @ 2:51 PM
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