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Are text messages and TV the bane of relationships?

Do you use text messaging or other technology to avoid serious conversations? Here is an article talking about the importance of face-to-face conversations in the digital age. It points out that texting shouldn't be used as a way out of a real conversation that you don't want to have. I agree with that point, but I would add that its better to text about something than never discuss it at all. Quietly stewing about something is far worse than having a text conversation about it. Personally, I hate texting on phones- it takes too long. I've had plenty of important conversations via instant messaging or email, though.

In the latest "Blame Television for the Downfall of Civilization" news, studies show that people are more disengaged from those around them when the TV is on. Does this mean you should take the TV out of your bedroom? The article does point out that it depends on how people use the TV. Do you turn the TV on to drown out your partner, or do you watch together and talk about the shows? It can be a nice way to relax together if its something you both enjoy. If you're using it to zone out and ignore your partner, then there are likely problems in the relationship that can't be solved just by taking the TV out of the bedroom.

A very sad, touching article from BBC News about an Israeli woman and a Palestinian man in love.

A woman talks about sexuality and Buddhism in a post from BuddhistGeeks.com.

Labels: communication, love, religion

posted by Mia @ 10:06 PM